Diving into my Femininity

As I go on a journey to explore my feminine traits beyond my hair which…I no longer have. I want to think about what are the things that make me feminine? (Written in 2020)

I know that this could be makeup, nails, hair and clothes, but what else makes someone feminine?

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What is something that will make me noticeably a woman?

I do feel very confident in my appearance, I don’t feel the most feminine. I always said that I wear my femininity in my hair but it doesn’t have to be that way.

(Plus, I have no choice)

Things that make me feel feminine

Makeup

It’s fun and it’s always something I’ve been attracted to since I was a little girl. I love the idea of makeup. I just don’t think I’m that good at it plus I feel like I look better without it which is why I don’t wear it that much.

Dresses/Skirts

I love dresses! I really feel sexy and cute whenever I wear a dress. I could wear a dress in the winter. It really doesn’t matter, but skirts and dresses make me feel beautiful.

Jewelry

I have an obsession with cute dainty accessories. From rings to anklets and my favorite…waist beads.

Painted Nails

I have been obsessed with getting my nails done since I was a little girl. I love the long and pretty nails. They make a statement and I love it.

Purses

I haven’t bought any new purses but I do like them. I prefer small statement making bags.

Body Oil/ Perfume

I love smelling good, it makes people remember you, especially if you wear the same scent. I always prefer floral scents nothing too glam.

Colors

My favorite color is red. I find it very sexy and it always catches the attention of someone. I also like pink simply because it’s dainty and it’s like red !

Tight Clothes

Okay, so being a hourglass shape I want to show off my curves at any chance I get. So shirts that show my chest or cleavage (in appropriate settings) are important to me. I also like how certain bottoms fit my ASSets

Cute/Sexy Underwear

I used to think buying underwear was too much, seeing how I prefer to have my cute kitty out. However, I understand that wearing something sexy or cute underneath your clothes…isn’t for anyone else. I want to feel confident and sexy when I take my clothes off.

Self care routines

The idea that I am taking a bath (which I can’t do because of a yeast infection that one time…) to relax is nice, laying in a tub naked listening to music and drinking wine with candles is the ultimate way to make me feel sensual. Simply washing my body and exfoliating or doing a skin care routine makes me feel feminine.

Writing this makes me feel feminine, so I’m on the right track I think.

Eating Fruit & Drinking Water

Granted, everyone should do this but it makes my yoni happy so that’s why it makes me feel feminine. I notice the way my body reacts when she’s eating the right things and well hydrated, it has a positive impact on how I look and feel.

Feeling Small

In my relationships I want to feel protected. I want to feel small and dainty. I feel as though this could be achieved with finding a partner that is physically bigger than me. Having someone very masculine around me makes me feel feminine as well.

I used to think spending money towards these activities were a waste but now I understand why do many women make these apart of their budget. Yet, here I am spending money on video games. Wow.

Time to make a change.